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		<title>featured! eat drink pretty &amp; utterly engaged</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jun 2010 15:03:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>melissa oholendt</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ll admit it; sometimes life isn&#8217;t as blissful and picturesque as I might want to think. Sometimes Life just flat-out throws a fist-of-doom at you right square in the stomach just to get your attention and prove a point. (Yup. I just used an analogy of Life being the equivalent of a street fighter. Pretty [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ll admit it; sometimes life isn&#8217;t as blissful and picturesque as I might want to think. Sometimes Life just flat-out throws a fist-of-doom at you right square in the stomach just to get your attention and prove a point. (Yup. I just used an analogy of Life being the equivalent of a street fighter. Pretty sure that&#8217;s who I&#8217;ve been trading sucker punches with the last few weeks.)</p>
<p>In the darkness of some cloudy days came one amazing ray of sunshine. Jenna of <a href="http://eatdrinkpretty.blogspot.com/">Eat Drink Pretty</a> made my <em>week</em> and featured <a href="http://eatdrinkpretty.blogspot.com/2010/05/love-shoot-kimber-and-chas.html">Kimber &amp; Chas&#8217;s fabulous Utah engagement session</a>. If you don&#8217;t follow the <a href="http://eatdrinkpretty.blogspot.com/">Eat Drink Pretty blog</a>, you are missing out. (I mean that.) Between her panache for making the most gorgeous sweet treats, she also posts about one of my very favorite topics: entertaining.</p>
<p><a href="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Picture-1.png"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-896" title="Picture 1" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Picture-1.png" alt="" width="1079" height="737" /></a></p>
<p>I also found out that a couple of the photos I took of the <a href="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/jnp-workshop-part-2/">JNP Studios Workshop</a> Tablescape were published in <a href="http://www.utterlyengaged.com/category/issues/issue-009/page/20/">Issue 9</a> of the online magazine <a href="http://www.utterlyengaged.com/">Utterly Engaged</a>. The tablescape was all about the manly-man so I&#8217;m sure they were &#8211; ahem &#8211; thrilled with the uber-girly squeal that escaped my lips when I first saw my name.</p>
<p><a href="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Picture-3.png"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-897" title="Picture 3" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Picture-3.png" alt="" width="1402" height="942" /></a></p>
<p>Even though it hasn&#8217;t been the kindest of last 30 days, I know how blessed I am to have my photography recognized by a <a href="http://eatdrinkpretty.blogspot.com/">blog</a> and an <a href="http://www.utterlyengaged.com/">online publication</a> that I love. Blows to the stomach included, I realize I am living one hell of a charmed life.</p>
<p>I have so many fun blog posts coming up soon including the details of two spectacularly gorgeous Minnesota weddings. Look for those to hit your Google Reader this month, but first&#8230;I must go put Life in a headlock. He deserves it.</p>
<p>i&#8217;m yours,<br />
melissa</p>
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		<title>a year</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 May 2010 17:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>melissa oholendt</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[At the beginning of May I had my own little anniversary date; May 3 marked the date of my first official photo session. I won&#8217;t lie, I look back on those first photos in my portfolio and I cringe a little (a lot) but I also celebrate because I have come far since those beginning days. I have failed far more than I [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>At the beginning of May I had my own little anniversary date; May 3 marked the date of my <a href="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/butcher-family-family-session/">first official photo session</a>. I won&#8217;t lie, I look back on those first photos in my portfolio and I cringe a little (a lot) but I also celebrate because I have come far since those beginning days. I have failed far more than I have succeeded thus far but out of that I have grown in knowledge, in skill and in confidence. And while I still have so far to go, it&#8217;s a little piece of joy to look back and be able to say that I am a totally different photographer today than I was back then. </p>
<p>My hope for next year is that I can look back and cherish where I am right now; WHO I am right now because I think the recognition of how far one has come is important but remembering who you were is just as important. A year ago, I was holding myself back in protection from the fear of the unknown but today I am purposefully running full stride in the direction of fear and uncertainty. I know my failures will be numerous but that&#8217;s ok because playing it safe is no longer in my vocabulary.</p>
<p>I am so grateful to the clients and friends I have gained since the beginning of this journey. I have been entrusted with documenting one of the most important events in a couple&#8217;s life and I am being honest when I say I am totally honored by their trust. </p>
<p>Saturday was the first wedding of my second wedding season ever and let me tell you, it set the bar pretty high; can&#8217;t wait to share. Until then, Happy Anniversary to me and a heartfelt thank you to my clients, friends and support system for pushing me and believing in me. I would not be here without you.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-882" title="MO_1185" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/MO_1185.jpg" alt="MO_1185" width="819" height="604" /></p>
<p>i&#8217;m yours,<br />
melissa</p>
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		<title>callie chappell &#124; lifestyle</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Apr 2010 03:12:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>melissa oholendt</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I haven&#8217;t said this to many people but I consider myself incredibly fortunate to be a part of the photography community in the Twin Cities. I really do. I constantly find myself in awe of the talent of my friends and colleagues but more so I also find myself in awe of their humility and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I haven&#8217;t said this to many people but I consider myself incredibly fortunate to be a part of the photography community in the Twin Cities. I really do. I constantly find myself in awe of the talent of my friends and colleagues but more so I also find myself in awe of their humility and eagerness to encourage.</p>
<p>There has been a lot of chatter lately about what community in the photography industry means and how to live it. Well, this is me raising my hand in support of the environment that has flourished in the Twin Cities. It is a community that really is about <span style="text-decoration: underline;">community</span> and being there for each other through good times and bad. We&#8217;re a community that takes <a href="http://photogen-inc.com/blog/2010/02/mn-photostars.html">silly photos</a> of each other just because we can. We&#8217;re a community that pushes each other to succeed. There are very few times in life where I can remember feeling so swept up by a community of like minded peeps. (And before I sound too much like a cult member &#8211; onto the photos. Oh dear. Just&#8230;keep reading.)</p>
<p>One of the best parts of this community is the people and one of my favorites would have to be <a href="http://www.callievblog.com/">Callie Chappell</a>. (For reals.) Callie is sweet, gorgeous and hilarious; pretty much the definition of a triple threat. Callie is also a <a href="http://www.calliev.com/">Wedding &amp; Lifestyle Photographer</a> in the Twin Cities and when she emailed me asking if I would be willing to do some quick headshots for her, I literally jumped at the opportunity. And then I turned it into a full-fledge THING and made her go out in the 40 degree weather with her bare arms and legs, but this is what I do. We all know this.</p>
<p>Dear Callie, thanks for making my job easy. I adore you.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-842" title="Callie Chappell_0063" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Callie-Chappell_0063.jpg" alt="Callie Chappell_0063" width="819" height="604" /><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-845" title="TwoVerticalBlog" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/TwoVerticalBlog.jpg" alt="TwoVerticalBlog" width="819" height="648" /><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-844" title="Callie Chappell_0119" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Callie-Chappell_0119.jpg" alt="Callie Chappell_0119" width="544" height="879" /><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-841" title="Callie Chappell_0037" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Callie-Chappell_0037.jpg" alt="Callie Chappell_0037" width="819" height="604" /><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-843" title="Callie Chappell_0073" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Callie-Chappell_0073.jpg" alt="Callie Chappell_0073" width="544" height="879" /></p>
<p>i&#8217;m yours,<br />
melissa</p>
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		<title>jen &amp; casey &#124; lifestyle</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Mar 2010 00:50:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>melissa oholendt</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I wish I had photographed their wedding.
There, I said it. Nevermind that it was 7 years ago and at that point I was still in college persuing my dreams of psychology architecture interior design undecided communications. Nevermind all that. I still wish I had. You see, Jen &#38; Casey have the type of love that [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wish I had photographed their wedding.</p>
<p>There, I said it. Nevermind that it was 7 years ago and at that point I was still in college persuing my dreams of <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">psychology</span> <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">architecture</span> <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">interior design</span> <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">undecided</span> communications. Nevermind all that. I still wish I had. You see, Jen &amp; Casey have the type of love that invites people in; the type of love that is equal to a night of board games with your best friends. Comfortable, silly and over-the-top fun.</p>
<p>Jen &amp; Casey, thank you for everything. Thank you for making me laugh (a lot) and THANK YOU for letting me in and see what you guys are all about. I&#8217;m so grateful to have met you.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-826" title="Crews Family_0106" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Crews-Family_0106.jpg" alt="Crews Family_0106" width="819" height="604" /><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-832" title="Crews Family_0031" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Crews-Family_0031.jpg" alt="Crews Family_0031" width="544" height="879" /><br />
<img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-831" title="Crews Family_0379" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Crews-Family_03791.jpg" alt="Crews Family_0379" width="819" height="604" /><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-827" title="Crews Family_0247" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Crews-Family_0247.jpg" alt="Crews Family_0247" width="819" height="604" /><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-833" title="Crews Family_0422" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Crews-Family_0422.jpg" alt="Crews Family_0422" width="819" height="604" /></p>
<p>i&#8217;m yours,<br />
melissa</p>
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		<title>featured!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Feb 2010 17:21:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>melissa oholendt</dc:creator>
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&#8220;The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.&#8221; -Eleanor Roosevelt
 
When I first started my photography journey, a very wise and wonderful friend gave me this advice: Dream BIG. There&#8217;s no point in dreaming if you don&#8217;t dream big. So I did. Some may look at my 5-and-10 year plans and [...]]]></description>
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&#8220;The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.&#8221; -Eleanor Roosevelt</em></p>
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<p><em><span style="font-style: normal;">When I first started my photography journey, <a href="http://photogen-inc.com/blog/">a very wise and wonderful friend</a> gave me this advice: Dream BIG. There&#8217;s no point in dreaming if you don&#8217;t dream big. So I did. Some may look at my 5-and-10 year plans and laugh (There&#8217;s likely an entry for &#8220;Portraits of Justin Timberlake&#8221; in my ten year plan. No big deal.) but I am crazy passionate about making these things happen for myself. Yes, a lot of the things on my list are out of reach right now but what fun is there in aiming low?</span></em></p>
<p>In the past couple weeks I have been so humbled and honored to have some of my work featured on the blogs of women &amp; publications that I respect and adore. With a huge thanks to these very fabulous women, I have been able to cross off one 2010 goal far (far!) earlier than I originally had hoped.</p>
<p><em> </em></p>
<p><em><a href="http://mnbride.com/ME2/Audiences/dirmod.asp?sid=&amp;nm=&amp;type=Blog&amp;mod=BlogTopics&amp;mid=8C60F825D09B410EB47ECFE93D970A81&amp;tier=7&amp;id=B50A521F43C247D48A6C1379CE4B3FB5">Minnesota Bride Blog</a>:</em></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><a href="http://mnbride.com/ME2/Audiences/dirmod.asp?sid=&amp;nm=&amp;type=Blog&amp;mod=BlogTopics&amp;mid=8C60F825D09B410EB47ECFE93D970A81&amp;tier=7&amp;id=B50A521F43C247D48A6C1379CE4B3FB5"><img class="size-full wp-image-760 aligncenter" title="MNBride" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/MNBride1.png" alt="MNBride" width="800" height="641" /></a><br />
<a href="http://firstblushbride.blogspot.com/2010/02/loving-some-melissa-oholendt.html"><em>First Blush Bride Event Planning</em></a><em>:</em></p>
<p><a href="http://firstblushbride.blogspot.com/2010/02/loving-some-melissa-oholendt.html"><img class="size-full wp-image-758 aligncenter" title="FirstBlushBride" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/FirstBlushBride1.png" alt="FirstBlushBride" width="800" height="653" /><br />
</a><a href="http://livethefancylife.wordpress.com/2010/02/04/love-you-complete-me/"><em>Live the Fancy Life</em></a><em>:</em></p>
<p><a href="http://livethefancylife.wordpress.com/2010/02/04/love-you-complete-me/"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-759" title="livethefancylife" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/livethefancylife1.png" alt="livethefancylife" width="800" height="800" /></a><br />
Justin Timberlake, here I come.</p>
<p>i&#8217;m yours,<br />
melissa</p>
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		<title>st. valentine</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Feb 2010 23:19:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>melissa oholendt</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know there are various opinions on the non-holiday that Valentine&#8217;s Day is but I venture to say that any day we set aside to celebrate the love that is in our lives is more than reason to celebrate.
To my own sweet, sweet Valentine. Life isn&#8217;t worth anything without you. Thank you for showing me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know there are various opinions on the non-holiday that Valentine&#8217;s Day is but I venture to say that any day we set aside to celebrate the love that is in our lives is more than reason to celebrate.</p>
<p>To my own sweet, sweet Valentine. Life isn&#8217;t worth anything without you. Thank you for showing me God&#8217;s Love every.single.day.</p>
<p>Love deeply.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-750" title="VDay2010_0001" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/VDay2010_0001.jpg" alt="VDay2010_0001" width="544" height="879" />i&#8217;m yours,<br />
melissa</p>
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		<title>lizzie &amp; matt &#124; lifestyle &#8211; part 2</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Jan 2010 21:48:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m a BIG Christmas fan. Always have been. Up until the year Matt and I married, I spent most Christmas mornings from 2:00am to 5:00am tossing and turning having internal fights with myself about the merits of staying in bed versus getting up to snoop ONE MORE TIME. I was an expert level tape unsticker [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m a BIG Christmas fan. Always have been. Up until the year Matt and I married, I spent most Christmas mornings from 2:00am to 5:00am tossing and turning having internal fights with myself about the merits of staying in bed versus getting up to snoop ONE MORE TIME. I was an expert level tape unsticker and had mastered the art of rewrapping a gift to perfection; if there were an award given, I would win it. Hands down.</p>
<p>At some point during the years where my little brother was old enough to understand the Santa concept, I took my sneakiness a step further. At 6:00am every Christmas morning I would sneak into my little brother&#8217;s room and wake him up, whispering that Santa had come and eaten the cookies we left out (yes, this makes me a manipulator). He would run from his room to my parents room, inevitably screaming that SANTA HAD COME, SANTA HAD COME. People, I did this almost every year for 10 years. TEN YEARS.</p>
<p>My parents could never figure out how my little brother &#8211; who has always been fan <em>number one </em>of the concept of sleep &#8211; would miraculously wake up at 6:00am every Christmas morning. I should be hanging my head in shame. Should be. But I don&#8217;t because, secretly, one of my favorite memories of Christmas was the look of pure joy that my little brother&#8217;s face contained when I would wake him up.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve never told him that but it&#8217;s one of those special moments that he and I would share every Christmas morning and this Christmas, as I knocked on his door to wake him up (at a very humane 9:00am, thankyouverymuch), I was vividly reminded of those looks of his.</p>
<p>You may be wondering what this has to do with Matt &amp; Lizzie. I <em>promise</em> there is a point to this long story.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re new to the ol&#8217; blog; Matt is my little brother (not to be confused with husband Matt; we&#8217;re totally a nickname family) and Lizzie is his beeeeeautiful girlfriend Lizzie (whom I adore). That look of pure joy that I was referring to earlier? I see it <em><a href="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/lizzie-matt-anytime/">all the time</a></em> when they are together. And to this sister who is her little brother&#8217;s biggest fan? That look means more than I can say.</p>
<p>While I was home for Christmas, we headed into the Big Apple for some Central Park goodness.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-707" title="Misner-Moore_0011" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/Misner-Moore_0011.jpg" alt="Misner-Moore_0011" width="819" height="604" /><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-712" title="Misner-Moore_0110" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/Misner-Moore_0110.jpg" alt="Misner-Moore_0110" width="819" height="604" /> <img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-714" title="Misner-Moore_0156" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/Misner-Moore_0156.jpg" alt="Misner-Moore_0156" width="544" height="879" /><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-709" title="Misner-Moore_0046" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/Misner-Moore_0046.jpg" alt="Misner-Moore_0046" width="819" height="604" /><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-715" title="Misner-Moore_0197" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/Misner-Moore_0197.jpg" alt="Misner-Moore_0197" width="544" height="879" /><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-710" title="Misner-Moore_0087" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/Misner-Moore_0087.jpg" alt="Misner-Moore_0087" width="819" height="604" /><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-716" title="Misner-Moore_0213" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/Misner-Moore_0213.jpg" alt="Misner-Moore_0213" width="819" height="604" /><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-713" title="Misner-Moore_0124" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/Misner-Moore_0124.jpg" alt="Misner-Moore_0124" width="544" height="879" /><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-711" title="Misner-Moore_0102" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/Misner-Moore_0102.jpg" alt="Misner-Moore_0102" width="819" height="604" /><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-717" title="Misner-Moore_0225" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/Misner-Moore_0225.jpg" alt="Misner-Moore_0225" width="819" height="604" /><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-718" title="Misner-Moore_0247" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/Misner-Moore_0247.jpg" alt="Misner-Moore_0247" width="819" height="604" />i&#8217;m yours,<br />
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		<title>g family &#124; lifestyle</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jan 2010 17:12:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>melissa oholendt</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve sat down to write this post 3 or 4 times this week. It&#8217;s not unusual for me to take some time to write the story for but this story has been the hardest for me to write. Cinnamon contacted me about getting her extended family together for a lifestyle session; she explained that instead [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve sat down to write this post 3 or 4 times this week. It&#8217;s not unusual for me to take some time to write the story for but this story has been the hardest for me to write. Cinnamon contacted me about getting her extended family together for a lifestyle session; she explained that instead of purchasing individual gifts for each other at Christmastime, her family chooses to get out and do things <em>as a family</em> as their gift to each other. Yes! I&#8217;m in! But then the next line hit my heart; she told me that her father was sick and under hospice care and that really, they wanted family photos to look back on and remember.</p>
<p>I almost emailed her back and told her I could do it. Almost. It wasn&#8217;t that I didn&#8217;t want to, or I didn&#8217;t care enough about <a href="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/glassbrenner-family-lifestyle/">Cinnamon, Steve and Cece</a> to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">want</span> to do this for them; the opposite in fact. I didn&#8217;t know if I <span style="text-decoration: underline;">could</span> do this. I love to invest in my clients; I love to get to know them and connect with them and on that level, I didn&#8217;t know if I could be strong enough to do this for them without turning into a puddly mess of tears. But I realized my fears of being connected were the exact opposite of what I have based my business on. I knew that if the tables were turned, Cinnamon would go out of her way to help me and I knew I wanted nothing more than to do the same for her.</p>
<p>We met the weekend before Christmas and this family blew me out of the water with their laughter and kindness. I showed up expecting nothing and they gave me such a beautiful example of the love of a family.<br />
<img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-699" title="Glassbrenner Family_0214" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/Glassbrenner-Family_0214.jpg" alt="Glassbrenner Family_0214" width="819" height="604" /><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-700" title="Glassbrenner Family_0300" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/Glassbrenner-Family_0300.jpg" alt="Glassbrenner Family_0300" width="544" height="879" /><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-698" title="Glassbrenner Family_0209" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/Glassbrenner-Family_0209.jpg" alt="Glassbrenner Family_0209" width="819" height="604" /><br />
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		<title>jennifer &#124; lifestyle</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Jan 2010 19:55:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>melissa oholendt</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I want to tell you a story. There once was a girl who believed so much in a fundraiser for cancer that she offered to shave her head if donations were to reach a certain level. Well, they did and she did. And she is fabulous.
i&#8217;m yours,
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I want to tell you a story. There once was a girl who believed so much in a fundraiser for cancer that she offered to shave her head if donations were to reach a certain level. Well, they did and she did. And she is <em>fabulous</em>.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-692" title="JC_Headshots_0276" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/JC_Headshots_0276.jpg" alt="JC_Headshots_0276" width="544" height="879" />i&#8217;m yours,<br />
melissa</p>
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		<title>fossey family &#124; lifestyle</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Dec 2009 00:53:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The fabulous Fossey family found me through a recommendation from the equally fabulous Glassbrenner&#8217;s and trust me, they are truly fab. I met them at their house for a little Sunday afternoon lifestyle photo shoot with Rowan and his adorable baby sister Addison. Little did I know that little Rowan is a model; his photo was [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The fabulous Fossey family found me through a recommendation from the equally fabulous <a href="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/glassbrenner-family-lifestyle/">Glassbrenner&#8217;s</a> and trust me, they are truly fab. I met them at their house for a little Sunday afternoon lifestyle photo shoot with Rowan and his adorable baby sister Addison. Little did I know that little Rowan is a model; his photo was recently in an ad circular for Target. I might have asked him for an autograph and he might have ran away from me when I asked; clearly he is not a fan of fame.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-595" title="Untitled-1" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/Untitled-11.jpg" alt="Untitled-1" width="819" height="654" /><br />
<img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-585" title="FosseyFamily_0167" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/FosseyFamily_0167.jpg" alt="FosseyFamily_0167" width="819" height="602" /><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-590" title="FosseyFamily_0248" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/FosseyFamily_0248.jpg" alt="FosseyFamily_0248" width="819" height="602" /></p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-583" title="FosseyFamily_0001" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/FosseyFamily_0001.jpg" alt="FosseyFamily_0001" width="544" height="877" />I&#8217;m usually not big on black &amp; whites for my photos but there was just something about this image that made me love a little b&amp;w action.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-588" title="FosseyFamily_0215" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/FosseyFamily_0215.jpg" alt="FosseyFamily_0215" width="819" height="602" /><br />
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<img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-596" title="Untitled-2" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/Untitled-2.jpg" alt="Untitled-2" width="819" height="654" /><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-593" title="FosseyFamily_0586" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/FosseyFamily_0586.jpg" alt="FosseyFamily_0586" width="544" height="877" /><br />
<img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-591" title="FosseyFamily_0301" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/FosseyFamily_0301.jpg" alt="FosseyFamily_0301" width="544" height="877" /><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-589" title="FosseyFamily_0229" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/FosseyFamily_0229.jpg" alt="FosseyFamily_0229" width="544" height="877" />So, there&#8217;s a story. While brainstorming shots Ben asked if I would be willing to photograph Rowan in front of the house with the family cars and, of course, I was <em>all about it</em>. He set the little guy up in his &#8216;hood outfit and Rowan gave me his best tough moves. Pure awesomeness.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-594" title="FosseyFamily_0844" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/FosseyFamily_0844.jpg" alt="FosseyFamily_0844" width="544" height="877" /><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-597" title="Untitled-3" src="http://blog.melissaoholendt.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/Untitled-3.jpg" alt="Untitled-3" width="819" height="654" />i&#8217;m yours,<br />
melissa</p>
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